Everyone's Favorite Question..

I feel like ever since the moment Vince and I said "I do" everyone we know is constantly asking.. "when are you having babies?!" haha

I used to just answer by saying.. "we haven't talked about it yet, we'll wait at least a year or so and then we may start talking about when we want to start a family"..

Well lately, I have had multiple people point out that it's been almost a year and half now aren't we talking about it yet? 

If I ever go to dinner and don't order a drink... I always get the "OMG are you PREGNANT?!?!" haha... umm no... maybe I just don't want to drink today? lol.

and of course my mother-in-law would LOVE for us to have babies ASAP (I don't think we have been to her house one time in the past 6 months in which the whole baby topic hasn't come up haha)...  

I honestly don't mind everyone asking, I think it's kind of funny and I know it's all just part of being newly married.. but to answer everyone's question: YES we are talking about it, BUT as of this moment we are not trying yet.

Obviously having a family is something we both want and something we talk about (a LOT).. but we just haven't decided to start trying for a baby right this second. First off, we are currently trying to sell our house.. and if we do sell it we will probably end up staying at his parents house while we wait to settle on our new house. And even though I love my in-laws very much, I don't really want to be pregnant while I am staying with them. haha. Not to mention who wants to be pregnant while trying to move into a new home?! 

We only plan on keeping our house on the market until probably June, because it's kind of a pain keeping it perfect all the time for showings and we really were just putting it up to see if we get any good offers. We have no reason why we need to move, we just want a single home instead of the townhouse.. but really there is no rush. So we talk about if we don't sell and take it off the market in June, then maybe shortly after that we will start trying.. maybe..

Another reason we are waiting a little bit is because Vince is really bored with his job right now. He has been there a couple of years and has been promoted a couple times and at this point there is really no where else for him to go with it. So he has been looking into a couple of other jobs and has just lately started getting things in the works for that (I will say more about that later, I don't want to jinx it!). When we got married we  both said we wanted to be happy and set in our careers before starting a family, so I am finally doing a job I really like and now we just want to wait for him to get things settled with his. 

SO once we get things figured out with both of those issues.. then we will be ready to start trying. I mean we could sell the house tomorrow and Vince start a new position and we start trying immediately.. or it could take another 6 months or so. For now we just have to wait and see how it all plays out. 

and besides.. for right now we are both completely happy with Ty being our only baby ;)